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Poor Communication Skills Cause Big Relationship Problems!

Do any of these statements sound like you?

“We can’t even talk to each other.”

“We fight about the same things over and over.”

“Our relationship is good, but it could definitely be better!”

“I’m so worried about the effect our relationship problems are having on the kids.”

“I’m so frustrated! There’s no easy or safe way to talk to each other.”

How We Can Support Your Relationship

If This is You, You’re Not Alone

Relationships are tough, and rewarding. We’re here to help. Our workshops teach safe, simple, step-by-step techniques that are easy to learn.

These skills will profoundly improve the safety, trust, ease and joyful aliveness in your relationship.

Find out how to support your relationship

Choose one of the options below for more information

Magic of Safe Conversations Workshops

Go from Conflict to Connection in our Magic of Safe Conversations Workshop. Whether you’re in a new romance or a mature relationship, discover how this Workshop can revolutionize your relationship.

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Free Couples Counseling Consultation

Not sure if our services are right for you? Give us a call at 808-256-3191 and receive a 20-minute, complimentary phone or ZOOM consultation!

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Private Relationship Counseling

Our Private Coaching helps couples with specific, immediate relational concerns. Sessions are custom-tailored to the needs of the couple and can include conflict resolution using NVC Mediation and/or our special system of Coached Couples Dialogue.

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Why Choose Us To Get Relationship Help?

Ken and Dee are trained NVC mediators and couples coaches who, since 2011, have helped dozens of couples – just like you – achieve healthier and happier lives through the Magic of Safe Conversations Dialogue.  We’re a senior couple who both teach communication skills and lead by example, so students can see exactly how – in real time – they can apply what they are learning.

Assisted by specially trained couples communication workshop graduates, our workshops provide personalized one on one coaching in a lovely and safe environment so necessary for successful learning.

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                               Ken Moore and Dee Chapon

What our clients say

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Extremely rich in useful content.  Ken and Dee have found the best Tools and technologies and packaged them in a easily digested presentation. Everett

If you really care about the quality of your relationship, this workshop is a must. - Hawkeye

I am appreciative of the time and care that Ken and Dee show in setting up the workshop schedule.  It felt like a common sense guide to clearer or more respectful communication between partners. - Dan

As a happily married, spirit-based couple of 34 years.....Ken and Dee's workshop support(ed) the two of us in refining our communication and deepening our already deep connection.....and the skills and understandings gleaned add to Leilah and my offerings to the larger community...Ken and Dee are authentic teachers.......Highly recommended. - Reverend Bodhi Be

Lucky are those who find and do your work. - Alison

This work feels like a gift, because Ken and Dee really live what they teach - their authenticity, commitment and skill was both inspiring and transferable into better and better relations with my wife - our "connection" keeps getting sweeter and sweeter. They created a safe place for us to learn how to have a Safe Conversation, and gave us the tools and practice time to do so.   Note: To get better at the "magic," we took the workshop twice and were delighted at how much more skill we gained in the second round  ~ Carl 

Working with Dee and Ken was an eye opening experience. I did not know how universal and common were the issues with my partner. The workshop provided a systematic way to address those issues. Dee and Ken's work is clear, structured, and definitely doable. We men in relationship have hope after all!!!

P.S. I have done the workshop twice and it gets better and better. ~ Xavier 

We participated in Ken and Dee's couple's workshop and recommend it to anyone who wants to have more ease and joy in their relationship. It was amazing how these simple tools had such a huge impact on our ability to get along, find the humor and enjoy our relationship.  ~ Satya & Bruce 

You can use us as an example of a couple who absolutely would not still be together without your class!  ~ John 

I notice that the tools that I have learned in this class have assisted me in being happier and more fulfilled in my marriage...I recommend this class to any and all couples, whether they are experiencing challenges in their marriage or whether they desire having more profound and meaningful communion with one another....  ~ Noah 

This workshop deepened my awareness and trust that my partner and I CAN find our way through the challenges together - rather than giving up and following old patterns...  ~ Seah 

"What a gift to sit with couples wanting more consciousness and connection, working on their deepest issues...this is a
dream come true."  ~ Denise 

With the tools we have learned, there is no doubt with continued commitment and practice, our love can only flourish in a
healthy way.  ~ Cat 

Offical Blog Updates

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Healthy Boundaries – Part 2: Controlling My Reactivity towards My Partner
Healthy Boundaries – Part 2: Controlling My Reactivity towards My Partner

When any difficult issue came up in my relationship with my husband, Ken, my first response was to look to where he was “wrong” or “insensitive” or “lacking.” I often saw him as the primary source of the discord or conflict we were experiencing. Despite knowing it takes “two to tango”, I still...

I Didn’t Have Good Boundaries! Do You?  Part I – How I Learned to Protect Myself When Reactivity Is Aimed at Me.
I Didn’t Have Good Boundaries! Do You? Part I – How I Learned to Protect Myself When Reactivity Is Aimed at Me.
Three Steps to Stop Fighting & Start Relating!
Three Steps to Stop Fighting & Start Relating!

Three Steps to STOP FIGHTING & START RELATING! – 3 Steps to radically improve your relationship to conflict – – And, your Relationship! It happens in all relationships: The ‘romance’ fades while concerns about commitment, money, freedom, (fill in the blank for...

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